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4. Juni 2017 · A loved one will die. You’ll get sick. Someone will mistreat you. The list goes on. “I’m a good person, so how could this happen to me?” is a question so many of us ask ourselves when tragedy...
- Accept That What Has Happened Has happened.
- Ask What You Can Do to Remedy The situation.
- Ask For Help.
- Don’T Play The victim.
- Know That You’Ll Get Through this.
- Look For The Good Amongst The bad.
- Make The Bad Thing A Turning Point in Your Life.
A common reaction to an unwelcome event or circumstance is outrage and denial. You may literally seethe with anger that this could happen to you. “What did I do to deserve this?” “I can’t believe this has happened to me!” Your mind goes into overdrive as you try to figure out what exactly has happened, how it happened, and who is to blame. Instead,...
Your actions are your most powerful tool in getting through difficult situations. You can’t think your way out of a hole. If there are some practical steps that you need to take to move closer to resolving this unwelcome period of your life, take them. Set the ball rolling on the things that will return your life to normal and your mind to peace.
At times of crisis, it’s okay—even sensible—to lean on your loved ones. Just as you would go out of your way to help a friend or family member who was in trouble, there are people out there who would do the same for you. You are not being a burden to anyone by asking for help. Even if all you ask of someone is to listen to you pouring out your frus...
You are not alone in bad things happening to you. The dice of life are always being rolled and many people are facing similar or worse situations to you right now. Whilst this thought may not bring you much comfort, it can provide a different perspective on the thing that has befallen you. By doing so, you might no longer see yourself as uniquely u...
Your record for getting through the tough times in life so far is 100%. This should comfort you to know that you will get through this too. You are stronger and more resilient that you give yourself credit for and you will come out the other side. Whether it takes a week, a month, or many years, you will get through this difficult time.
Not all bad things have good in them. Some things are just plain awful, and these should be recognized as such. But many things that appear and feel bad on the surface have glimmers of good within them. Losing a job, for example, can be extremely stressful. Yet, you might find new employment at a better company for higher pay and with a shorter com...
Often, we see bad things as anchors that can hold us back. We get lost in self-pity and forget about the power we have to change our situation. Instead, when something bad happens to you, use it and the insights you have gained from it to drive your life forward in a positive direction. Bad things can teach us a lot about the type of life we want t...
These people will continue on the path of destruction of others and their own lives. Also, keep in mind, those who have done terrible things were almost always on the receiving end of abuse during their formative years (parental, bullying, neglect, sexual abuse, alcoholic parents, physical abuse, etc).
There are many possible negative things that can happen to us in a day—from the little things like coffee spilling, being caught in a traffic jam, losing our keys, having people criticize you, to the bigger mishaps like getting into a car accident, losing our valuables, breaking up from relationships, or losing our jobs.
Research has shown that people who feel depressed often make more accurate predictions of events than people who don’t [1]. Lots of bad things happen in the world, and feeling bad about them is a normal reaction. It’s okay to feel: Grief about what’s been lost; Anxious about what’s going to happen next
Bad things happen to people every day. And when something bad happens to you, it hurts, but you pick up the pieces and move on with your life. But does it ever feel like bad things keep happening to you? As soon as you recover from one disaster, the next thing happens, and you’re left reeling again.
2 Both good and bad things happen to everyone. They happen to those who are fair and to those who are wicked. They happen to those who are good and to those who are evil. They happen to those who sacrifice and to those who do not. The same things happen to a good person. as happen to a sinner.
