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27. Aug. 2023 · Shame is a social emotion that can make you feel inadequate, inferior, and afraid of failure. It can also prevent you from being your true self and from connecting with others. Learn how to recognize and cope with your own sense of shame and how it affects your self-esteem and happiness.
- The Difference Between Shame and Toxic Shame.
- The Symptoms of Toxic Shame
- Conclusion
Shame is the feeling someone gets when they’ve done something wrong. It passes quickly and is often a healthy emotion to have once in a while. Toxic shame is different. It’s not shame about something you did, it’s shame about yourself.Self-shame in other words. Someone who has this often feels flawed, defective, inferior and unworthy of acceptance,...
1. Hiding
When you feel like you are inherently bad or flawed, then it only makes sense that you don’t want other people to see you. Because they will only reject you, right? So toxic shame causes you to avoid people and hide away, like I did in my first year of university. You also hide your true thoughts and feelings from people.It’s another way of hiding your “flawed self” to avoid other people’s judgement and rejection. Hiding your thoughts can lead to feeling like you have a “blank mind” and nothi...
2. Reliving Embarrassing Memories
Toxic shame also affects your attention. It makes you randomly remember humiliating moments and embarrassing situations from months or years ago. This is one way that shame reinforces itself over years. When you have shame, it can be almost impossible to simply stop these thoughts from popping upand making you feel like sh*t about yourself for no reason.
3. Physical Insecurities
Shame biases your attention, and it makes you focus on all your little flaws and shortcomings more. Back when I had really bad social anxiety, there were a few insecurities I would always be obsessing over. My slightly crooked teeth are one example. I would always be trying to hide them from people by not smiling or even talking. I always checked how they looked when I passed by a mirror, etc. Recognize that your thoughts are being formed by your shame.
Hope this was useful. If you could relate to what I talked about here, then the good news is that there is hope for you! Toxic shame is possible to overcome.Not always easy, but there are specific exercises and steps you can take to stop feeling this way for the rest of your life. The opposite of toxic shame is the feeling of “I am enough.”This mea...
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